Emma Delia

In lieu of flowers, Memorial Donations may be made to the charity shown below.

Emma Delia, Obituary, July 19, 1930 – February 10, 2025
It is with profound sadness that the family of Emma Delia announces her passing on Monday, February 10, 2025 at the age of 94 in Smithtown, New York.
Born on July 19, 1930 in Queens, New York, to Margaret and Hugo Ghiringhelli, Emma was the beloved sister to a family of four brothers. She graduated from Newfield High School and later began working at Con Edison, where she met her beloved husband, Pat J. Delia. They were married on July 25, 1954 and were married for over 70 years. They initially settled in Huntington Station, New York. As their family grew, they relocated to Smithtown, New York where Emma would reside in a home she loved for 62 years.
Emma dedicated over 30 years working in the Smithtown School District, including Smithtown High School East, where her compassion, warmth, and loving spirit touched countless lives of students. A gifted painter, she drew inspiration from the calming beauty of nature—most notably the shore and forest trails where she loved to walk with her dogs, Dotsy and Dolly, and children. Emma also sang in the choir at Saint Patrick’s in Smithtown, passing on a profound love of music to her children and grandchildren.
Her greatest joy by far was being surrounded by her family. She is survived by her husband Pat J. Delia, children Karen Cotten (Robert), Michael (Jonathan Cleveland), Pat Delia, and son-in-law Chuck Curiano. She has five incredible grandchildren; Jennifer, David, Matthew, Benjamin, and Emma; and two great-grandchildren—Avery and Ayla. She is preceded in death by her beautiful daughters Joette Curiano, Lori Kanestrin, and daughter-in-law Victoria Delia.
Admired for her grace, gentle spirit and steadfast faith, Emma was known to never utter a harsh word about anyone or anything.
She will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered by all who were fortunate enough to know her. The family extends heartfelt gratitude for the outpouring of love and support during this difficult time.
Services
• A wake will be held on Wednesday, February 19, 2025 between 2-4 PM and 7-9 PM at Branch Funeral Home, 190 East Main street, Smithtown, New York, 11787.
• Funeral services will take place on Thursday, February 20, 2025 at 9:45 AM at Saint Patrick’s Church, 280 East Main Street, Smithtown, New York, 11787.
Interment will take place on Thursday, February 20, 2025 at 11:15 AM at Smithtown Cemetery, 64 North Country Road, Smithtown, New York, 11787.
In lieu of flowers, the family welcomes contributions to the Joette P. Delia Curiano Scholarship in memory of Emma’s generous and nurturing spirit.