Mary Louise Volz
February 8, 1960 ~ October 17, 2025
Mary Louise Volz, age 65, of Rocky Point died Friday, October 17, 2025. Mary was born February 8, 1960 in Port Jefferson, New York. She is the daughter of the late Frederick and the late Inez (Ryan) Sexauer. She was employed by Long Island State Veterans Home in Stony Brook, New York as a Barber. She is survived by her son: Frederick Robert Volz of Port Jefferson Station, New York,; Her two sisters: Lauren E. (Thomas) Fitzpatrick of Wading River, New York and Patricia (Matthew) Lewis of Stony Brook, New York and one brother: Matthew (Athena) Sexauer of Virginia. She is also survived by her partner, Alfred Santacapita. Mary was also predeceased by her son, Robert Volz, and brother, Frederick John Sexauer. All arrangements have been entrusted to the Rocky Point Funeral Home, 603 Route 25A, Rocky Point, New York. Visiting hours will be on Tuesday, October 21, 2025 from 3-7PM. Prayer will be offered at 6PM. Private burial will follow on Wednesday. Mary's family would appreciate memorial donations to The Long Island Vets Home in Stony Brook at https://veteranshome.stonybrookmedicine.edu/donate or the ASPCA at https://secure.aspca.org/donate/2025-eap-asdm1-web-T1-P1?ms=wb_hom_position1-adm1-20251014&initialms=wb_hom_position1-adm1-20251014&pcode=WEB1HOM&lpcode=WEB2HOM
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A true example on how we should live our lives. We will always Love you
Love Chris and Kristen
You will always be remembered in a loving way.
Sending all my condolences and love to my family. I love you all endlessly.
Mary we love you… the literal best… love you always… Lisa, Amanda & Rich, Vinny, Nick, Tea, Nevi ❤️
Dear Lauren, Tom and Family, Our thoughts, prayers, and love are with all of you.
Frédérick and Al, Lauren and Patty and Matt, I am so sorry for your loss. One of my fondest memories is the three sisters dancing with us at a wedding. Love to you all, Noreen and Dennis and family
Holding you in our hearts as you remember your beloved mother. May her spirit live on through the music and love you share.
Mary, Certainly a suprise and and sad news. Your to young. As cousins we met randomly. Once at the Boardy Barn, where I met my wife, I was part of the appraisal group when the state widened the road in front of the barber shop you were working in, taking the parking away, and a wedding etc. May your paradise be full of Fresca and Tab and now you can hang out with your son, dad and mom, my dad and mom (Uncle Fred and Aunt Dot). Wishing you peace. John and Lisa Watson
Lovingly referred to as “Mother Mary” by many
Thank you for sharing your kind heart and generous Spirt
My heart broke when I heard this. You will always have a special place in my heart cuz. No matter how many miles we were apart one phone call always let us catch up quick. Love you Mary and God Bless all of the family and friends at this time. ❤️
Mary, my wonderful neighbor and beautiful friend. My life will never be the same without you. When I moved it was a huge sacrifice, your friendship was one of y greatest joys. Love you always–your friend Terri
Mary came into our life later and was a welcomed addition. Her kindness and sensitivity was real. I think the last time we laughed was when she was trying to figure out how to best calm down her new puppy! Her last text to me was Oct 11th. I asked “how’s the puppy”. Her response was “the puppy is crazy”. ♥️😘. Mary is definitely with the angels in heaven,
We choose a tree because they continue to, grow, give shade and comfort.like Mary! Fran & Tom
Our deepest sympathy,
We are so sorry for your loss. We enjoyed some fun times with Mary, we appreciated her being on a weekly zoom meditation. May her big warm smile and heart be with you always! Love, Jim & Theresa
Today at the Long Island State Veterans Home, we remember a truly special person who brought light and kindness to everyone here at the Home. Mary not only beautified appearances but also touched the hearts of our residents and their families with her compassion and warmth. Her gentle spirit and cheerful smile made each visit a moment of comfort and joy. She will be missed by all those who live and work at LISVH, and she will always be remembered. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of Mary’s family and friends.
All of us here at the Long Island State Veterans Home are deeply saddened by the passing of our friend & colleague. Mary worked as our barber, providing over 32 years of compassionate care to our veterans and their families. Mary was known for her unwavering passion & commitment to our mission She took great pride in ensuring our residents looked and felt their best, treating each resident with the dignity and respect they so deeply deserved. Mary’s presence brought comfort and joy to so many, and her legacy will live on in all the hearts she touched. We grieve with all her family and friends and Mary’s loss is deeply felt throughout our organization. May she rest in eternal peace.
Condolences to all from Al’s Sunny Hill friends. Love, Betty, Maureen/Kevin, Jean/Mike, Alicia/Christopher, Tracy/Ashley, Evan/Elvin and families
Sending love and strength to you and your family. Our hearts are with you.
So sorry for your loss. My condolences to Mary’s family & friends.
With Love and Fond Memories.
So sorry for your loss. I have great memories of being at the house in stony brook when I was a kid or being on the boat with your dad. Mary cut my hair for 40 years. So sorry. She will be missed
May Mary’s light and spirit continue to shine through your memories. Forever in our hearts.