Ilona Kaydanov

ilona  kaydanov

September 16, 2000 ~ August 31, 2023

Born in: New York, NY
Resided in: Commack, NY

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Services

Visitation: September 9, 2023 2:00 pm - 7:00 pm

Branch Funeral Home of Commack
2115 Jericho Turnpike
Commack, NY 11725


Service: September 10, 2023 9:30 am

Branch Funeral Home of Commack
2115 Jericho Turnpike
Commack, NY 11725


Interment:

Commack Cemetery
Townline Road
Commack, NY 11725


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  1. The world lost a wonderful soul. Your short time on the is planet touched everyone that got to meet you. Especially those that shared a dance. You changed so many lives. You will be forever missed.

  2. We watched you grow into a beautiful young woman; you will always be that beautiful young woman to us! Your love will forever grow in our hearts. Rest in forever peace. Love your dance family-

  3. I did not know Ilona but read about her tragic death in Newsday and it really touched me greatly. Condolences and sympathy to her family and friends.. RIP in HEAVEN ILONA. Sincerely Tema Brodsky

  4. When I had my first dance lesson with Ilona this May, I sensed her brilliance as a dance teacher, individual, and beyond. From her radiant smile that lit up the room, to her infectious energy was profoundly felt, it was an honor to be in the presence of this amazing young lady. Having known Ilona for such a short period of time, it was an honor to have met her and to be blessed to have her as my dance teacher. I fell in love with dancing because of Ilona and I will continue to in her honor. I for one, will miss you forever, ilona

  5. Our hearts are torn forever. You have been an inspiration to Unay and every soul you had touched— reason for kids like Unay to start and love to dance and have confidence in themselves. Now, your legacy will continue through these kids dancing, we will never forget you and remember you with every dance. You are in a special place in our hearts forever. May your soul rest in peace now.

  6. I met Ilona at the dance studio, she was dancing with Dennis and they lit up the room. Her smile drew you in. Ilona was taken suddenly from us but she will live on forever in our hearts. Her kindness, talent, and genuine caring will be remembered by all she touched in her life. She’s an Angel.

  7. candleI met Ilona, Dennis, Joseph and their mom Yelena at Dance with Us studios in my work there as a Professional Dancer and Teacher when Ilona and her brothers were young. I came to know them as dedicated, intelligent, happy children who were a joy to watch grow and become wonderful dancers, educated teens and adults and good human beings destined to be amazing members of society. Ilona grew to become a fantastic teacher of dance (a real natural). She really sparkled when she taught and danced. We couldn’t help but adore her and her brothers as any of the students she taught did. It truly breaks our hearts to have her taken from the world so soon. Oh, what a wonderful soul we have all lost. I pray for her eternal soul and for her loved ones left behind and will always remember her. Some day we will meet her again at a dance in heaven. With love from a fellow dancer and teacher.

  8. I met Ilona through school and we lived in the same neighborhood growing up. Ilona was such a sweet and amazing girl. I would see her running through the neighborhood all of the time! We became great friends in 5th grade and she was the reason I looked forward to going to school that year. She will be missed so so much.❤️❤️

    • ❤️Sarah…may you find peace and love in gifts from Ilona. Blessings…Ms.A. Art Teacher, Pines

  9. candleSincere condolences to Yelena and family on your tragic loss of your beautiful daughter Ilona . Acquaintances at Lucille Roberts , I remember you sharing the great accomplishments of your daughter . May she rest in peace and May your family find comfort in the thoughts and prayers from others in this community

  10. Sending my thoughts and prayers to your family during this incredibly difficult time. This is a tragic loss and Ilona will be deeply missed by all who had the pleasure of getting to know her.

  11. candle,Dear Ilonochks, you will be missed dearly. One more star light up in the sky. Our hearts are with your parents and brothers..

  12. I first met Ilona as colleagues lifeguarding. She was the fist one to introduce herself when I started and was always such a kind/compassionate person. Her personality and the way she carried herself never failed to light up the room and bring people together. Ilona, you will be dearly missed and always loved. Thank you for being an incredible friend and colleague.

  13. A loss that will be felt forever!
    Everyone that was honored to have Ilona in their lives, know’s what was taken from us.A young lady with endless hopes and dreams. A young soul bursting with life and energy. A smile that was electrifying. A gentle person loved by everyone. Ilona was intelligent in so many ways and made it her business to step up and help anyone in time of need without hesitation. She was a true and honest person. Ilona always spoke from the heart. She loved her family and friends. She was someone who would be there for you. I had the privilege of knowing Ilona from “Dance with Us” Dance Studio and witnessed all of these wonderful qualities that made her the person she was.
    My forever prayers are with the Kaydanov family.
    The Dance Community lost a spectacular dancer!
    We all lost a Special Friend!
    Rest Peacefully.

  14. Ilona you was a wonderful person, I met you couple of times when you was a little girl and 4 years ago at Rachel’s bat Mitzva but I always heard a lot about from your aunt .
    Unbelievable loss , heartbroken.
    Sending a lot of love to Lena and Misha , Dennis and Joseph.

  15. I can still hear Ilona’s voice suggesting we share a lane for swim lessons, with that bright smile that lit up a whole room. She will be missed with a heavy heart but we will never forget the beautiful mark she left on the world, my prayers and love go out to the Kaydanov family.

  16. To my young Artist Ilona, Dennis and Joseph,
    Ilona, Your kind happiness always filled our Pines Art Room, and I was so Proud to say this is a shining Hauppauge student ready for the future. Thank you for teaching me the beginning joys of being your Art Teacher… you taught me so much. And then. Dennis came into my Art Room., and filled my heart with stories about you at MS., and I could see the Pride he felt in being your brother. Dennis shined in his eyes with love of his family., and he would tell me, wait Ms. A., Joseph is coming next. Awwww, Joseph, in the Art class brought the brightest love of his big Sister and big Brother, beaming with Pride and stories of Ilona and Dennis. These are the loving moments an Art Teacher gets in their Teaching tenure of teaching a family. What a beautiful family you All are…I love you All so very much. GOD BLESS you ALL. You are All in my heart forever

  17. Condolences to the family. A great loss for everyone. Such a charismatic soul. She taught my son Saif swim for last 3 years. Very sad to hear and prayers for the family.

  18. candleWords cannot express how deeply sad I was to hear about the passing of Ilona. She was such a bright, happy and caring person to be around. She made those around her feel acknowledged, just her energy she filled the room with was infectious. She always talked about her love of dance, swim and of course her family, who she loved so deeply! It was so nice to have someone so special teach our participants to swim, so thank you for that! Even though your time here was cut short we will always remember you in the things that you loved most! We gained another angel to watch over us. I know my words can only help so much but I hope you can find comfort in knowing how much your special Ilona was to each and every one of us. Sending all my love, thoughts and prayers. We will miss her dearly! 🙏💕

  19. Ilona taught both my daughter and son how to swim. She was the most patient person with my son and getting him to like the pool. My daughter is a fish because of her.

    She was an amazing woman with a bright future ahead of her.

    My family will miss her deeply. She will forever be in our hearts and memories whenever we go swimming.

    We love you Ilona.

  20. Ilona I can’t imagine how it’s going to be without you. You were a bright light with a bright future . You would so often tell me about your plans, as you seemed to so quickly go from a girl to a young woman. You are going to be so missed by so many who’s lives you truly touched. Please send peace from above to your loving family and help guide them at this time. You all exemplified love and togetherness. The fact that you were always there for your brothers and did everything together was always most impressive to me.

    I will miss seeing your smiling face and hearing your laughter, but you will forever be in my heart and on my mind! ♥️Rest peacefully

  21. Ilona was always such a kind and passionate person who brought light with her wherever she went. I knew her through school and she was one of the first friends I made when moving to Hauppauge. During senior year I was lucky enough to join the newspaper to work with Ilona once again and see her passion in action. She was the Soaring Eagle’s fearless leader who was on top of making every paper better than the last. She was so excited for the future and was driven to make a difference in this world. So sorry for the loss and she will be greatly missed ❤️

    • Our dear beautiful Ilona…….you will never be forgotten. Your love, care and beauty has touched so many hearts. Although we may not see you…..be sure that you are etched into our hearts and memories always. Your love of life is a true inspiration to us all. We are blessed to have had you in our lives, and your memory will live on to eternity. Until we meet again….sweet Ilona.

  22. We are still in shock and complete disbelief that Ilona is gone. Ilona taught dance to our daughter Victoria for 2 years and will be greatly missed. Our hearts go out to the Kaydanov Family. May you find strength during this difficult time.

  23. I was extremely fortunate to have crossed paths with Ilona while attending Hauppauge Middle & High School. She was kind, passionate, and above all else, an immensely intelligent and selfless person. Her drive pushed everyone around her to exceed and I truly cannot believe she is gone. My prayers go out to all of her loved ones she will truly be missed.

  24. candleMy deepest condolences to Yelena and the family on such a tragic loss of your beautiful daughter. Wishing you Peace to bring comfort, Courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your heart. You are all in my prayers. 🙏

  25. candleMy deepest heartfelt condolences! Words can’t begin to express such sadness. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! May your find comfort in knowing heaven has been blessed with an Angel forever will be with you.

  26. This loss is impossible to forget, it is unimaginable. May you find a consolation in the memories and the thought that she is going to be watching over you now, and as proud as you were of her- she would want you to be as strong now. RIP Ilona

  27. What can I say about Ilona that everyone hasn’t already said?! She was such a beautiful, kind sweet, compassionate bright light at the Y. She was one of my youngest daughter’s swim instructors and she was so patient, attentive and loving to her. She eldest daughter also had the privilege of swimming with her. As a colleague of hers at the Y, she was the same with everyone she encountered and so was her brother Dennis. I didn’t get the pleasure of meeting Joseph.

    I am so terribly sorry for your loss Kaydanov family, my prayers and deepest condolences are with you all. May loving memories provide some sort of comfort in this difficult time. I will keep the family in my prayers. She will forever be missed ❤️🙏🏾

  28. Ilona my you soul sit next to the Lord himself because you a very special person! You always performed an amazing job on all my company media posting. My heart is broken hearing of this news! Tears come to my eyes just thinking about not having you in our life’s !
    My heart and support goes to your family!!❤️❤️❤️ I will pray for them🙏
    With my deepest sympathies
    Tom for Tilden Car Care , Huntington

  29. As we remember Ilona, we are reminded of her kindness, laughter and genuine spirit. Our family is forever heart broken that a life so full and bright has been taken from us too soon. We will always remember the times that we spent with Ilona, and the happy memories that will forever be etched into our hearts. We are praying and thinking of the Kaydanov family and send our utmost sincerest condolences on the tragic loss of their beautiful daughter and sister…. Ilona.

  30. candleI first meet Ilona while working as lifeguards at the Y in Commack and quickly became friends. You will always be in our hearts and my deepest condolences to her family during this tough time.

  31. candleIlona was my dance instructor around a year ago. She made dance such a joy. Not only because she was a wonderful teacher and talented dancer, but also because she was a wonderful person. Her patience, kindness, humor, intelligence and happiness showed in everything she did. She spoke often and lovingly of the people in her life, and I feel extremely fortunate that I had the opportunity to cross paths with her. Thank you Ilona for everything. I will remember you fondly, and wish your friends and family all the best during this time.

  32. To Yelena and family. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you find your way through this difficult journey. During this time of grief, may you find solace in the love and memories you shared with Ilona. Her impact on your life, and the lives of others, is a testament to the beautiful soul she was. Always know that she is watching over you with a warm smile and love. Rest in Peace Ilona

  33. candleOur children took swimming lessons from Ilona at the JCC for the past 5 years. Our kids absolutely adore her and call her “Miss Ilona.” She was always smiling, so patient, hard-working, and most of all loving and kind. An excellent swimming instructor and such a positive role model for our children in so many ways. Miss Ilona meant so much to our family and we will miss her terribly. Our most sincere thoughts and prayers are with Ilona’s family and dear friends. We will always remember and be thankful for Ilona.

  34. Our thoughts are with the Kaydonov family… Ilona you were a shining star in our Social Studies class… your smile was contagious as was your love of learning… you will be terribly missed by those who knew you but you will never be forgotten.

  35. My heart is broken that this wonderful and talented person has been taken from us. Ilona was such a beautiful soul and she had a magical touch on everyone who met her. I always admired her strong family bond and enjoyed listening to her speak lovingly about her family members. It has been my ultimate pleasure to have had Ilona as my ballroom instructor for the past year, and it has been a great honor to have known her during this time. To Ilona: thank you for your inspiration and for having a profound impact on my life. I pray for your eternal peace. I pray for your family as they cope with this horrific tragedy. Your memory will live on in my heart and mind forever. Thank you again for everything. I will always be your ballroom student, and I look forward to when we may dance again.

  36. candleIlona was one of the most amazing people we have ever met. Our daughter had been taking swimming lessons with her since she was 1 year old, and still has never bonded with another teacher like she did with Ilona. We are heartbroken. She was a beautiful, kind soul and we will miss seeing her smiling face every weekend. Rest in peace, Ilona. Our hearts go out to you and to your family, and we are always thinking of you. You will be greatly missed.

  37. May you rest peacefully sweet Angel. May your family find the strength with the beautiful memories she left behind ❤️❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻

  38. My friend Ilona was a shining example on how to live your life. From her prowess in her fitness routine, her excellence at Stony Brook University and the joy from her dancing; everything she did was a showing of how amazing Ilona really was. From the moment I met her and at every single time I saw her, she lit up the room. Her presence was an invitation to smile, and an indication that it would be a great day. The six years I known her were a true pleasure, and the moments I spend with her during summer lifeguarding at SYJCC and lunches at college were top highlights. Ilona will always be my friend and will always be missed, but her impact on me shall never be forgotten.

  39. May you rest peacefully Sweet Angel❤️. May your family find comfort in your beautiful memories 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️


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