Jason W. Oates

jason oates

September 26, 1979 ~ June 8, 2022

Born in: Queens, New York
Resided in: Smithtown, New York


Visitation: June 14, 2022 2:00 pm - 5:00 pm

Branch Funeral Home Smithtown
190 E. Main St.

Second Visitation: June 14, 2022 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm

Branch Funeral Home Smithtown
190 E. Main St.

Mass: June 15, 2022 9:45 am

St. Thomas More RC Church
115 Kings Highway


Smithtown Cemetery
64 North Country Rd.

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Memories Timeline


  1. candleWe will miss you terribly words can’t express what we feel. Joe will hold you in his heart forever.
    Love you
    Cascio s

  2. candleJay, I can’t believe that you’re gone. I was just thinking about you the other day. I’m blessed with many great memories of our friendship that I will treasure always. <3

  3. There are no words than can express the grief I feel for the loss of my friend and for his family. He is forever in our hearts & memory.

  4. JoAnn, I’m terribly sorry for your loss of your dear husband Jason. I pray God give you peace and strength. I will keep you and the family in prayer. Love you.

  5. candleJoAnn I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you and your family love, hugs and prayers.
    Love you

  6. candleJoAnn, I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. I have no words, please know that I will keep you and your children in my prayers.
    Margaret, Lizzy and Thomas

  7. candleJoann, I am sorry for the loss of your husband, the father of your children. I can’t find the words. I cannot picture a world without Jay in it. I pray that you find peace. I pray for all who loved him and who is experiencing this pain and devastation, and I am grateful that you have a loving family and support system, beautiful children, and a few true friends to help you through this tragedy. Jason, you will always be my brother. I have been cycling through this crazy mixture of grief. This loss of you is profound and paralyzing. My loving prayers are for you family.

  8. candleWe’re so sorry for the loss of your Dear Husband Jason!!! May God give you and your amazing children the Peace …🙏 ✝️

    Grace & Gehrig Franco

  9. Jason a caring husband and devoted father,he will be dearly missed.
    Rest in peace
    Cousin Joey Tag

  10. Rest in peace, Jason. Although I have never met you, I have met your beautiful wife. Your girls are beautiful.
    I am sorry I have never gotten to meet the man that Joanne chose to be her beloved husband….May our Lord welcome you into His kingdom with open arms.

  11. Dear Family,
    Our hearts are heavy, knowing our family is suffering. We are praying for your strength in your faith. May the Lord wrap his arms around you and guide you through this devastating loss. Rest easy Jason … Aunt Rose is there, waiting with open arms.
    Love, Nancy, Danny & Family

  12. candleYou will always be in our hearts Jason you will never be forgotten your wife and children will always be remembered by us may you rest in peace you will be sorely missed

  13. candleJay,
    At your wake was a jar to leave a memory of you for your family. What comes to mind is your beautiful loving heart. When you worked at the junkyard, you came across a scared homeless white pitbull. You won her trust by feeding her scraps from your lunch. You took her home and adopted her. Patches had a home and a family because of your kindness. This is a perfect example of who Jason Oates was: a kind, caring, beautiful soul who will be terribly missed by all who knew him. May God always watch over your wife and children and keep them safe.

  14. I am so sorry for your loss. I have known Jason since high school and over the last few years we would talk almost daily on messenger.

    Jason always had a great sense of humor, was a talented and insightful mechanic, and a proud father.

    He will be missed terribly.

  15. I only me him once but a cool guy and Iam sorry to his family and friends My prayers go out to them.

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