Jeremy Andrews

June 10, 2010 ~ July 25, 2025
Born in:
Manhasset, NY
Resided in:
Nesconset, NY
In Lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to: St. Jude Children’s Hospital in memory of Jeremy. (see link below)
Services
Visitation: Wednesday, July 30, 2025 5:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Branch Funeral Home Smithtown
190 E. Main St.
SMITHTOWN, NY 11787
Service: Wednesday, July 30, 2025 7:30 pm
Branch Funeral Home Smithtown
190 E. Main St.
SMITHTOWN, NY 11787
Private- Cremation:
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Charities
The family greatly appreciates donations made to these charities in Jeremy Andrews 's name.
I knew Jeremy from school and I would like to say he was the smartest person I have ever met. I hope that he is in a better place and that he is at peace. I knew him on a personal level and would play guitar with him regularly, he was so musically talented that he; in the first 30 minutes could play Everlong by the Foo Fighters. I love you man and rest in peace.
Thank you Elijah for reaching out to write something about Jeremy. He told me about your friendship and about how he was learning guitar from you. He played me Everlong and Paint it Black last week. We have two electric guitars here from when I used to play and we found an acoustic that we were hoping he could request. He was so excited about playing. Thank you for giving him that. I know it made him feel amazing.
Thank you so much Dylan. He really cared about you so much. Even if you guys had a fight, he really valued you as a person and friend. Thank you for being his friend and for texting Tyler to check on him when Jeremy went away to school. You are a wonderful person and I am glad that you were in Jeremy’s life.
Rip jeremy he was a homie, great at everything we love you Jerm. 😭
I’m so sorry Kayhl. I know this is hard for all of his friends too. Jeremy loved making friends and was so funny. I’m sure you have great stories to remember with him and his shenanigans. Please keep those stories in your heart.
-Bill
Thank you Bill for being Jeremy’s friend and writing about him. It means so much to the family to see these posts. He was an amazing person and we are happy Jeremy had left an impact on so many people.
I wish u were here remy thanks for standing up for me miss you bro
Thank you Aiden. Jeremy was a good layer to anyone he felt needed support. He could argue his way out of anything and would have the most logically reasoning. He always put himself in front of others to offer protection and support. I’m glad to hear he did that for you.
Thank you Amy for sharing your memories of Jeremy. He loved making art for his teachers and friends. There is a picture in the vestibule entry office that people show me every time I go to into Great Hollow. Your message means a lot and we will hold all of these words close
Oh Alyssa, Jeremy ADORED you. I heard so much about you and your art. He admired your skill so much and you as a person. I always knew when he was on the phone with you. I want you to know that you meant a lot to him and you brightened his days in such a way that I will be forever grateful that you were his friend.
I love this Jen ❤️
Love, Carisa, Keira and Emma Burns
Love you all 🩷
i don’t know if we were close. i don’t even know if we were friends. i know that i knew a lot about him for a moment in time, and i guess that’s all.
he was always so genuine. just such a real person. he was honest and up front, and he’d do anything for the people he cared about. he was so good at comforting people, and i feel like nobody talks about that. he’d stay up all night to make sure that his friend was okay. i remember we used to bond over music. we’d spend hours just sending songs back and forth and reading through lyrics. if only i could send a few more.
so many deep talks. he was so raw when he was participating in intellectual conversation. he portrayed himself a certain way to most people, so the majority of his acquaintances never got to know the parts of him with real depth, but they were so beautiful. dark and broken, but beautiful nonetheless.
he didn’t care what anyone said or thought about him. people were so quick to pass judgment about him, but they didn’t know a single thing about him. there were very few people who truly did. he never conformed to what others wanted for him. he did what he wanted up until the very end. he was always so true to himself regardless of anything else.
i pray that he rests easier than he lived. he deserves the peace he so desperately craved.
p.s. jeremy, if you see this, i’m finally reading haunting adeline like you told me i should. i’m sorry it took me so long. i shouldn’t have waited until you were gone. i promise ill finish it for you, all 600 pages.
Thank you for your beautiful words Alicia. I remember him talking about you, and he considered you a friend from things he said if that will help give you peace. One of the names my mom was thinking for me was Alicia, so your name stuck out. You painted the perfect picture of him, he was very complex with lots of layers. One was the wacky funny guy, one was the protector, one was the boy who loved playing with younger kids; the other was the intellectual; the artist; the heart of gold. He could not fit in a box. As his mom I could only hold my arms out and try to corral him, but Jeremy was Jeremy; he loved to find loop holes to rules to get more freedom. You should have seen what he did to the boarding school’s handbook his first day- notes written in margins, things underlined and crossed out… Jeremy was always true to himself. Thank you for posting, it helps the family so much to see Jeremy’s friends write about him.
Dear Cristina and family, our deepest condolences. Our hearts are saddened to hear about your dear Jeremy’s loss. We cannot imagine what you are going through losing such a precious, amazing, talented, and caring person. He touched so many people and may Jeremy’s memories live forever.
I havnt seen Jeremy since you moved from sandalwood, but I will forever remember him riding his bike , blasting his music ! Such a sweet kid , Always said hello when he seen me & have a nice day .
I will keep you all in my prayers , My heart truly hurts for you .
Joanna ( Your old mail lady )
Jeremy is my best friend, my favorite person, and i’ve had the most fun with him than anyone else. During last summer, we used to always go out every day for most of the day. We used to always be doing something fun like having a campfire or even just going to the park. We had matching se bikes and whenever we went out we always had fun. We used to go back to his house and he would always make me something to eat or drink. I wish I could see him one more time and have one of those milkshakes he used to make us. He means so much to me and he will always have a special place in my heart.
Hedi spaghetti and family
Jeremy was on my bus last year and was always super nice and funny. We would always talk on the bus had many memories I won’t forget. i’ll miss you rest easy man.
I don’t even know what to say or how to start so I’m just gonna say I was absolutely grateful for Jeremy and the friendship that we had, I hadn’t gotten to talk to him so much this year but I’m never going to forget the moments we shared together as he was always such a strong life force and brought happiness towards people as soon as he walked in.
Cristina,
Please accept my deepest condolences. I can’t imagine the pain you’re going through, but I want you to know that my thoughts are with you and your family during this incredibly difficult time.
Jeremy was one of the most humorous, passionate, and kind-hearted kids I’ve ever had the privilege of working with. He always wanted to be a friend to everyone, and his warmth made an impact on everyone around him.
I was Jeremy’s residential counselor for nearly eight straight weeks, and in that time, I got to see just how special he truly was. His care for others and his laughter will always stay with me.
I recently left my position about three weeks ago, and before I did, Jeremy gave me a letter. It’s a reminder of his heart, his depth, and how much he cared. If you’d like to read it, I’d be honored to share it with you.
My heart goes out to you and the rest his family and everyone grieving this incredible young soul.
For days now, I’ve been trying to think of how I ought to best express my condolences and put words to the range of emotions his loss has had on myself and those who had the pleasure of getting to know him but for once, I’m at a loss for words. I’m so unbelievably sorry that Jermey’s life ended before it even had the chance to begin- he had such a promisingly bright future, that stubborn one. I was one of the lucky ones who got to work alongside Jeremy at MLA as he embarked on a journey aimed at sorting out the parts of himself that were hurting him more than helping him. For 15, he was rather self aware of the behaviors and traits that were causing him grief, but had a hard time taking steps to change these behaviors- one might even have said he didn’t want to. Jeremy was stubborn… so bloody stubborn. He’d debate it all- nothing was off limits, not even the topics he knew very little of. Jeremy was known to say “out of pocket” s***t regularly hahaha- he enjoyed making people laugh and even more so loved to see how people would react to whatever he just said. For instance, one memory that’ll always be imprinted into my brain is when he responded to the prompt “what would you want for your funeral?”. Most of the other kids in the group spoke on the colors and songs that’d be playing at their gathering but not Jerm; Jermey didn’t skip a beat when it was his turn to respond and said “I’m going to have an open casket and have someone tie strings to each of my limbs and then have me hanging from the ceiling while being puppeteered to dance”. Like what?!? I remember him and everyone else cackling at the thought- no one ever could have imagined that his funeral would take place so soon. Another one of Jerm’s shining qualities lied within his artistic capabilities and creativity; Jermey regularly made beautiful pieces of art with the limited supplies we had/he had access to and could frequently be found making something for his brother. He loved his brother more than he loved himself and frequently cited him as his main source of motivation for staying alive and doing what he needed to do to get home. Please let his little brother know, he will never be alone for Jermeys spirit will never stop watching over him. Jermey Andrew’s was a legend- I will miss yelling at him to stop making magic mud during groups, the hours we spent talking in his doorway, the way he said my name so weirdly that it haunted my dreams, his ability to care for others even when he was struggling, the countless debates we had on everything under the sun, playing chess, and reminding him of all the reasons this life is worth living and why he can’t give up. I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t mad at him for making such a damning decision, but I am somewhat comforted knowing his soul is finally at peace and he got the relief he was desperately seeking.
I love you long time kid. I’ll catch you on the flip side Jerm💛.
I knew him he helped me through a bad time once and he said I helped him then I haven’t spoke to him after then I found out he died Rest in piece Jeremy