Joseph E. Atwater, Jr.

joseph atwater, jr.

April 1, 1949 ~ July 1, 2025

Born in: New York, NY
Resided in: Kingsport , TN

Services

Visitation: Friday, July 11, 2025 2:00 pm - 4:00 pm

Branch Funeral Home Smithtown
190 E. Main St.
SMITHTOWN, NY 11787


Second Visitation: Friday, July 11, 2025 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm

Branch Funeral Home Smithtown
190 E. Main St.
SMITHTOWN, NY 11787


Service: Saturday, July 12, 2025 10:00 am

St. James Lutheran Church
230 2nd Ave
St James, , NY 11780

(631) 584-5212

Interment:

St. James Episcopal Cemetery
Route 25 A
SAINT JAMES, NY 11780


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  1. Thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers during this difficult time. May your dad rest in eternal peace.

  2. Praying for the entire Atwater family. I pray that you all have the strength needed to get through the grief of this amazing man. Danny can’t remember a time in his life that Joey wasn’t a part of. Living on Franklin St. came with a bond that can never be broken. I pray that Joey is out of pain and resting in the arms of Gods angels as he has become one himself.
    Until we meet again.
    Love
    Danny and Maria Scott

  3. candle“No eye has seen, no ear has heard, and no mind has imagined what God has prepared for those who love him.” 1 Corinthians 2:
    You were always a fun guy. So many memories of growing up. Beloved Cousin Joey, rest in eternal peace.

  4. candleJoey Atwater, my brother, you will be missed more than you know! He went too early, and too fast. We did get to spend some time with him, several months ago, when I came to NY. The good part Joey is in a better place!

  5. Every time I traveled with His Arms Children’s Project to Kenya I loved it when Joe was there too. His compassion, sense of humor and love for the kids was so easy to see. May Jesus take good care of him now.

  6. candleWell done Joey Atwater, you have been a good and faithful servant! As long as I have known you, you were the example of what servanthood looks like. You will be missed by so many.

  7. Our dear friend. Your light burnt out much too soon. So many memories the 10 hot dogs you ate, our visit to San Diego , hearing about your adventures. RIP.

  8. Pastor Joe married us Phil and Carla Moore in Klamath falls ore . We were married at Zion Lutheran Church September 29 th 2023. We are so sorry for your loss May the peace of the Lord be with you always..May God bless his family with love the Moore’s

  9. candleUncle Joey, a great man with a strong spirit. When we were young he was the cool Uncle with a motorcycle. And when I got older he appeared in a place when I needed a sign most in my life. Then later in life he came all the way to Georgia to baptize my children. Though our time together was far and few between he always welcomed me and my family with open arms. My heart goes out to his family and friends 💛🙏

  10. My prayers are with you and your family. May God has gained another angel. 🙏🏾

  11. My most heartfelt condolences to the family during this difficult time. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

  12. Joe was a very good friend of mine through the thick and trends of life. He really helped me get through an emotional divorce my put me through.
    Joe and Laura and I rode motorcycles all over Southern California and the mountains , Nevada, Utah, New Mexico, Arizona.
    One of the rides we got caught in a snow storm in Southern Utah mountain.
    We had dinner parties at my home and Joe and Laura home.
    Joe is now out of pain and at piece with Lord and Savior.. Many of us are not far behind seeing Joe again!!!.

  13. Joe was an amazing man with a calm demeanor on the outside but he could share his inner turmoil with me eloquently. 🤣 Joe was instrumental in my early recovery..I was honored to attend his ordination to Deacon in the Catholic Church. I’ve lost touch with him over the years but he has always been the perfect example of Jesus to me and he taught me by showing me, what the “Fruit of the Spirit” looks like in real time. “Well done good and faithful servant…” See you soon brother.
    ✝️❤️🙏🏼🙌🏼

  14. candleIn Loving Memory of Joseph E. Atwater Jr.

    Joseph E. Atwater Jr. is lovingly remembered and deeply missed. He is survived by his beloved wife, Laura; his children; Danielle and husband Rob, Janienne and husband Matt, Matthew and wife Jessica; his stepsons Danny and wife Megan, Tommy and wife Gwen; and eleven cherished grandchildren who held a special place in his heart. Also survived by his brother Robert and wife Peggy, sister Dianne and husband Joe and predeceased sister Kathleen.

    Joe was born and raised in Brentwood, New York, and later resided in Nesconset until 1996. He proudly served as a police officer in New York for 25 years before retiring to San Diego with Laura, where they spent 15 joyful years together. In 2008, Joe embraced a second calling as a Lutheran pastor, serving congregations throughout the San Diego area.

    That same year, Pastor Joe joined the “HisArms Kenya” ministry team, where his compassionate heart found its home. He was deeply devoted to the children of Maseno, Kenya, and made numerous mission trips to support and uplift the community. On June 26, 2011, Joe was ordained at St. Paul’s Lutheran Church in Pacific Beach, California.

    Joe and Laura moved to Oregon in 2013. A few years later, he fulfilled his lifelong dream of becoming a full-time pastor at Zion Lutheran Church in Klamath Falls, Oregon, while living in Eagle Point. In May 2024, Joe fell ill and spent most of his final year in New York and Tennessee. Despite the challenges, he found peace with God and prepared his heart to go home to Jesus.

    Joe—loving husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle and Pastor—leaves behind an extraordinary legacy of faith, kindness, and friendship. He touched countless lives with his warm spirit and was loved by so many across the globe.

    May he now rest in peace, and may his memory live on forever in our hearts.

  15. candleYou were a very special person who left a lasting impression on everyone you met . You are loved by so many and will be deeply missed.!!
    God speed, brother until we meet again .

  16. I haven’t been able to write before today. It was too hard to process this was really happening. It’s still so difficult. Ii am so sorry for all of us. This is a deep loss….our brother, your father, husband, uncle friend, pastor..
    My bothers are who I go to in times of happiness and sadness. The sermon at the funeral talked about how when Koey closed his eyes on earth he opened them in heaven. That’s the exact thing he said to me when Kathleen died…
    Joey will forever be in my heart. I love him so much and he will be with us always. I miss you so much already ❤️💔❤️
    Dianne

    • I haven’t been able to write before today. It was too hard to process this was really happening. It’s still so difficult. I am so sorry for all of us. This is a deep loss….our brother, your father, husband, uncle, cousin,friend, pastor..
      My brothers are who I go to in times of happiness and sadness. The sermon at the funeral talked about how when Koey closed his eyes on earth he opened them in heaven. That’s the exact thing he said to me when Kathleen died…
      Joey will forever be in my heart. I love him so much and he will be with us always. I miss you so much already ❤️💔❤️
      Dianne

      • I haven’t been able to write before today. It was too hard to process this was really happening. It’s still so difficult. I am so sorry for all of us. This is a deep loss….our brother, your father, husband, uncle, cousin,friend, pastor..
        My brothers are who I go to in times of happiness and sadness. The sermon at the funeral talked about how when Joey closed his eyes on earth he opened them in heaven. That’s the exact thing he said to me when Kathleen died…
        Joey will forever be in my heart. I love him so much and he will be with us always. I miss you so much already ❤️💔❤️
        Dianne

  17. candleDear Laura. Sending lots of love, prayers and hugs. So sorry to hear that Joe passed. I can hear him talking to the big guy about the the Yankees !! I miss you. Linda rasmussen (laatsch)


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