Shirley K. Stellhorn
January 3, 1930 ~ August 27, 2023
Born in:
Seneca Falls, New York
Resided in:
St. James, New York
Shirley K Stellhorn (nee Kreutter) was born in Seneca Falls, New York on January 3, 1930.
Shirley attended SUNY Brockport for her undergraduate degree and secured her Masters degree from Syracuse University. She was a woman ahead of her time.
Shirley began her teaching career in Watertown, New York later moving to Long Island and teaching in the Island Trees School District. Teaching was among her many passions and she taught physical education as well as being a guidance counselor.
Shirley raised three daughters, Kyra (Kelly), Pamela (Hauser) and Sara (Gorton) all of whom married very handsome and successful men.
Shirley spent many years volunteering with civic causes, schools, neighborhood associations and the church.
Shirley never stopped being active and throughout her life enjoyed participating in golf, skiing, bowling, line dancing and travel.
Shirley mastered most boardgames and card games and always enjoyed competing with her five grandchildren, Mark C Hauser, Nicholas Hauser, Kyle Gorton, Timothy Gorton and Isabela Winter (nee Gorton). All five grandchildren have found happiness with their wives, husband and partners. Mark has a budding young family with his wife, Allison (nee Goodrich) and their daughter, Reagan. Nick and Muireann Greely living a good life in Florida with their four-legged fur babies, Spud and Squid. Kyle and Brenda (nee Franco) are enjoying new homeownership in Patchogue, NY and Timmy and Alondra (nee Cervantes) are very busy renovating their new home in Hanover, PA. Isabela and Matt Winter have made their loving home in Brooklyn, NY with their dog, Cooper and all three enjoy the City life.
Shirley loved talking–to anyone and everyone.
For nearly all of her life, Shirley was fit and healthy. She lived a full life and at 93 years young, Shirley was called home.
To watch Funeral Services on Friday 9/1/2023 10:00 am at St. James Lutheran Church please visit church website:
https://stjameslutheranchurch.com then you would click on the tab for online services to watch service
Broadcast Date:
Services
Visitation: August 31, 2023 2:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Branch Funeral Home Smithtown
190 E. Main St.
SMITHTOWN, NY 11787
Second Visitation: August 31, 2023 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Branch Funeral Home Smithtown
190 E. Main St.
SMITHTOWN, NY 11787
Service: September 1, 2023 10:00 am
St. James Lutheran Church
230 2nd Ave
St James, , NY 11780
(631) 584-5212
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Your Mother will be deeply missed
Be comforted by so many wonderful memories
May God wrap his arms around you and give you all strength and healing as you say a final goodbye
Sending love and prayers to all the Family
Lori and Chris Manlio
Shirley will be missed by her wonderful family. Shirley lived a very fulfilled life and be comforted by her legacy
Shirley was, for as long as I can remember, such an amazing and strong role model, she lived life on her own terms, and when all others her age were starting to slow down, , Shirley was square dancing, taking ski trips and living life to its fullest! She never ceased to amaze all those around her, with her boundless energy, her endless gift of gab and her enthusiastic can-do mind set!
One of her finest accomplishments, and the proof-in-the-pudding to a life well lived , are the three amazing daughters she raised, one of which I am deeply blessed to be able to call my best friend, throughout the whole of my life!! My wonderful memories of this special & unique lady date back to elementary school, so many memories, including the nearly every other week sleep-overs at her home, year after year- a home I was always made to feel welcome and a part of… especially when Shirley would try her best, with great fanfare, to educate, enlighten & to encourage me ….on the wisdom & necessity of eating my vegetables… the funny things we remember, about those we share the moments of our lives with, are truly the icing on the cake of life!
There are so few people who play such a long and profound part in one’s life, and such a big part of the many memories of our lifetime…. I’m so very thankful for the important place she has held in mine!
For all she meant, to all those who loved her, i send my deepest condolences. I pray she will find eternal peace, Godspeed, and I know we can all be comforted in knowing that her dancing partners are lining up to greet her, the music is playing…as they welcome her home!
So sorry to hear about your mom.
I loved her. Our friendship is something I have always cherished and our memories together make me smile. We were college roommates for 4 years and Shirley and I experienced so many things. From skiing to cheerleading to swimming, we explored some pretty amazing activities for two young women in those days. Your mom was so proud of the family and spoke to me about all their successes. Sending prayers and comfort your way during this time.
Thinking of my 50 years of knowing “Mrs. Stellhorn”! She was a unique, active, and enthusiastic person. I am recalling many, many sleepovers (where she undoubtedly had to hear me and Pam giggling and putting on fantastic shows with our terrific singing!). I recall her making the BEST tuna fish sandwiches ever. I recall her sitting in traffic on the Robert Moses Causeway hauling us to the beach, or picking us up from roller skating or the movies. I recall her terrific dancing at my wedding. Mostly, I recall seeing her enjoy her own daughters and grandchildren pursuing their lives and building their families. She, and your whole, wonderful family, are in my prayers.
2 Timothy 4:7—-“I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.”
Thinking of all of you during these sorrowful days. We are sending our love and condolences. Yesterday we listened via streaming to the words of the minister at 3:30 and today, Friday, we tuned into the funeral service at St James Lutheran Church via YouTube. Thank you so much for making it possible for us to join with all of you. We are keeping you all in our prayers.