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  1. Deirdre,I was deeply saddened by the news of the loss of your son. I am sending you my deepest condolences to you and you family. I pray that God gives you all the strength you will need during this difficult time.Maureen

  2. To the Aponte Family,Very sorry for your loss and keeping you in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. I worked with Vince at Santander and his bright smile and quick wit kept us going through many tough days and his beaming smile. He will be missed.

  3. Offering our most sincere condolences to all family, friends, and loved ones of Vince. He was a wonderful neighbor who always greeted the door with a smile and had a kind heart towards our children.Vince donated his time at Carlton Wharf serving on the condo board and was always a great person to be around. He will be deeply missed.

  4. My thoughts are with your family during this difficult time. I was friends with Vince (or Vinny as we called him) and we worked together at SUNY Oswego. There’s not a memory I have that doesn’t have his infection energy and smile. He will be greatly missed!

  5. Deirdre, My deepest sympathy to you and to your family. You are and will remain in my thoughts and prayers.

  6. I am so sorry for your loss. Vince was a wonderful colleague and friend. He had an affectionate personality and I will never forget him.

  7. I’m so sorry for your loss. Please know that I will be praying for Vince and your family. My deepest condolences.

  8. To the Aponte family, so very sorry for your loss. I was just getting to know Vince better at Santander. I will remember him for his great energy and great smile. He is already missed.

  9. Our thoughts, prayers and love are with all of you at this very difficult time. May God be your strength.

  10. IΓÇÖm really sorry for your loss. I worked with Vince in Santander and will always remember him for his smile and energy. My thought and prayer are with all your family.

  11. Our words cannot begin to express our sadness hearing of Vincent’s passing. We will always have wonderful memories of his kindness and caring during our times together. Our hearts ache with the loss of his sweet personality. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all.

  12. My deepest condolences to your family during this time. Vince was a very special and caring person who was always willing to lend a helping hand. May his memory live on forever through all that knew and loved him. He will be dearly missed

  13. Deirdre – my dear friend, my words are insufficient. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, always. Our faith and our unshakable belief in God is all that will get us through these times. Love always, M

  14. My deepest sympathy to the family. Vince was such a great person, whose smile would light up the room. May God provide strength to the family in this time of loss. ~ Property Mgr for Trinity Mgmt Co.

  15. My deepest condolences to the family,. I had the honor to work with Vince at Santander and saddened when I heard he passed.

  16. Deirdre, My deepest condolences to you and your family in this Difficult time. My thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family.

  17. Sincerest condolences to the entire Aponte family & to all of Vince’s loved ones. Had the pleasure of meeting Vince through Santander & truly enjoyed my time interacting with him.

  18. My thoughts and prayers are with VinceΓÇÖs family and friends. Vince and I worked together and most of the time comparing vacations and laughing – he had such an infectious laugh. He is missed more than words can say.

  19. Vince and I worked at Santander together. Vince was an immensely wise man for his young age, always had never-ending energy and overall was an incredible person. It is and continues to be, a shock to hear of his passing. I will always value his friendship as he was not only a colleague, but a true friend. I realize this time is not easy, but I wanted to send the Aponte family my sincerest condolences. I’ve raised a few glasses in his honor and will always remember his bright and energetic personality. He will be surely missed.

  20. I lived in the same building as Vincent. He always had a smile and was upbeat. This was a shock, to say the least. He will be missed immensely.

  21. May your family find solace in that Vince was a well-liked & very respected colleague & friend at Santander. May he rest in peace.

  22. I worked with Vince at Santander and he was the man. He was always looking to liven up meetings with his dry sense of humor. I wish I had known him better outside of work. The world has lost a wonderful person, but I hope that his loved ones can take comfort that he has found peace in heaven.

  23. To Deirdre and the Aponte family, I am sorry for your loss, please accept my sympathy. Respectfully, Richard Stuart

  24. Vin… thank you. It’s been a while, but your presence was always radiant when I knew you. See you in the other life, brother

  25. I worked with Vincent at Santander Bank. He was an array of sunshine with the inviting smile that lighten up the room. I am deeply sadden that this world loss the most wonderful person. May God bless his celestial journey that fills with peace and serenity

  26. I grew up with Vinny. My family lived next door to him, Robbie, and their Dad. He was my best friend growing up and IΓÇÖll miss him dearly. News of his loss has hit me incredibly hard and IΓÇÖm incredibly sorry for his familyΓÇÖs loss. He was a great guy and although we grew apart over the years, I always thought we had more time. Words can not describe the sorrow I feel for my friend and his family. I pray he is in a better place and I pray for the Aponfe family. -Shivam Bhola

  27. I worked with Vincent (Vinny) 11 years ago in college as students. I only found about this from other sources. This is very sad that he’s gone. Vinny was smart, athletic, and full of great energy. The world has one less terrific human being.

  28. Vinny its 8 months after your death and I still miss you like you just left I think about you every day. I know one day we still meet again .. fly high big bro love you

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