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Sandra Alida D'Alfonso-Frazzetto

sandra d'alfonso-frazzetto

February 4, 1971 ~ January 8, 2026

Born in: Stony Brook, NY
Resided in: St. James, NY

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Visitation: Wednesday, January 14, 2026 2:00 pm - 4:00 pm

Branch Funeral Home Smithtown
190 E. Main St.
SMITHTOWN, NY 11787

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Second Visitation: Wednesday, January 14, 2026 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm

Branch Funeral Home Smithtown
190 E. Main St.
SMITHTOWN, NY 11787

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Mass: Thursday, January 15, 2026 9:45 am

St. Patrick's R C Church Smithtown
280 E Main St
SMITHTOWN, NY 11787

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Cremation: Thursday, January 15, 2026 11:45 am

Mount Pleasant Crematory
41 Main Street
Center Moriches, NY 11934

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  1. Aunt Sandy you will forever be remembered by the way you touched my life in such a special way and everyone around you. Your heart always spoke through your loving presence and touching words. I love you so much and am so grateful to have had you around while I was growing up and into my early adult years. Thank you for everything and for loving me like your daughter ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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  2. Our sweet, loving Sandy girl. Those we love don’t go away, they walk beside us everyday. Thank you for blessing us with your love. You will be forever alive in our cherished memories. If love could have saved you, you would have lived forever. A piece of our hearts now lives in heaven with you. Your light remains and will shine on in every memory, every story, every smile. We love you forever, rest in peace dear friend.

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  3. Sandy Girl,

    My heart is whole. Your love is pure. You will forever be the best gift to ever enter my life. My best friend, my true partner. You are at peace, free of pain, and with us now wherever we are. In our hearts like a rooted tree, strong and powerful. God will bless you for eternity. Your children are safe. I know your plan and will continue to do your work. Always with you by my side in every decision until we meet again. Until then, I will always look for your messages, as there have already been many. I love you forever my princess Penelope. God bless you, Peter

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  4. To Sandy’s entire family, I am so very sorry for your loss. Prayers for peace and strength as you go through this difficult time. Sandy will be missed.

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  5. To our special Friend Sandy,
    In moments shared, both small and grand, You gave with heart, a guiding hand, Like quiet waves upon the sand,
    Your love would ripple through the land.
    A gentle laugh, a knowing smile,
    Strength endured through every trial,
    Someone special, all the while,
    You walked with grace in every mile.
    In morning light and soft winds too, We feel the quiet strength of you, Your spirit shines in all we do, A legacy forever true.
    Now you rest where stars shine through, In peaceful realms beyond our view.
    We miss your voice, your warmth, your cheer And keep you in our hearts, so near..

    We love you Sandy
    Love Karyn, Matt and Matthew

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  6. You will always be my “Mama Sands”. I will never forget you. My heart is just broken. The memories we made, the love you gave me; I will miss you more than I can ever express. You are a light, your girls are too and I am thankful. They will carry your name with the honor it deserves and any chance I can I will too. You deserve just that & hope you know how much we love you! Rest peacefully

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  7. I love you so much Aunt Sandy, you were such a great aunt and best friend to my mom and blessed this world with your beautiful children and you presence. I pray you’re so happy and at peace in Heaven. I will forever cherish the time I got to spend with you💘💘💘💘💘

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  8. candleOur Dearest Sandy Girl….
    Now you can go and put your feet in the sand, let the sun shine on your face, and watch over the loves of your life… our memories together will always be held close to my heart with love…

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  9. Our condolences to Lauren, Caitlyn and the family. We’re so sorry for your loss
    Keep happy memories of Sandy in your thoughts

    Cindy Weigel
    Jake Weigel

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